Honestly, if you're not into it, it's cool. Rope weaving A more complicated technique, where a rope is first wrapped around the restrained partner's body in a zig-zag pattern, and then a second rope is woven around it. This is especially important for submissives.
And if anyone ever tells you differently, send them to me; I'll gladly explain slowly that their bad behavior is alienating people from our community. When you have a partner who is very compatible with you, it makes BDSM that much more exciting. The Fifty Shades trilogy by E. Online discussions are great, but nothing beats really learning from people who you know have a great reputation in the BDSM community.